Sex Fast Or Slow

By Dale Mazurek

It’s entirely up to her. And that goes for what she wants in the bedroom. While most women prefer the slow sensual type of sex some do prefer the quick paced sex once in a while.

Taking it slow will help you and your partner to express the senses and experience all the great experiences that’s involved in the sexual experience. You want to feel her soft skin, look at her beautiful eyes, listen to her special moans, taste her mouth and smell the great scent of her body.

Adult movies teach you that sex should be done fast. That’s just film how ever. That’s how they keep you interested. Slow passion won’t keep most people watching interested. The adult film stars are instructed to move along this way. Sorry to disappoint you but in real life this isn’t for the most part how it really is.

There are definite advantages to taking things slow. The best one is that you get to explore her beautiful body. Important to note that it’s not just her breasts and vagina that need attention. She has other high erogenous zones on her body like her ears, neck, back of her knees and even her feet. Don’t be so selfish and take away these pleasures from her.

Women love to be kissed, caressed and even licked. These kinds of motions will usually send a woman over the edge. These kinds of actions will make her want you more. The greatest sound is a sexy moan coming from the lady you love.

Build up her longing with romantic nuances like flickering candles, rose petals, fresh sheets, sweet music, sexy under wear or even some great sex toys. This entire package is very important to her so don’t try and take this away from her. It’s okay to try out different types of foreplay before going all out. Great build ups only make way for great orgasms.

You have to learn to control your urges. When you are making love you have to move slowly. The more you know each others bodies the better your sexual encounters will be. Each and every sexual experience means so much to women. So it’s important to make her feel special. If you make it feel like her first great time every time then things will go great for your love making.

Dale Mazurek
Dale has been happily married for 20 years and considers himself some what of an expert on topics like this one. You can check out 3 of his ever growing blogs at http://relationshiptidbits.blogspot.com/ or http://stcajo-readshortstories.blogspot.com/ and http://fishingtutor.blogspot.com/
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